the thing is, whether we direct diplomacy at you all or not, your vow is to not do diplomacy, so the thing to do would be to not respond even when someone calls you out. pointing the fingers at the faction that's willing to do diplomacy and blaming them for trying to bring up diplomacy is really the most captain obvious thing you could do. yes, we would like to talk to you and stop the crap. no, you're not supposed to want to talk to us, and you're supposed to continue the crap regardless of our discussions directed at you because you're odium.
i was hoping that odium would stay true to their "no diplomacy" thing, but i guess the bait was too strong. :p