Thats great, I'm glad. No sarcasm, I am.
My stance has always been "If you want to do PvP, find someone else who wants to do it, and do some PvP. If you don't want to do PvP, then you don't have to do PvP". Despite what people painted me as, I ENJOY consensual PvP. I like making builds and testing them. I like making a base with defense satellites and seeing how well they do.
Long as everybody involved wants to shoot it up, then by all means, shoot it up! If one person goes "Nah, I just want to work on my build today.", then you leave them alone. If someone has been on the server for 5 minutes and doesn't even have a base yet, leave them alone. If you're rolling around in a titan, and the other guy has a glorified shuttle as the best thing they've got, leave them alone.
To me, this is common sense stuff. Make sure the other guy WANTS TO FIGHT before you start blowing them up. Simply existing is not an open invitation to be attacked.