I, personally, love big ships. I love capital ships. However part of the draw of big ships is they're slow, methodical, and imposing. When I see a 700m long ship doing barrel rolls and flipping about like a spastic idiot it ruins the appeal of having a ship that large. It no longer looks cool, it looks stupid. I despise watching cap ships bob up and down as the player inside tries to chase and kill their enemy. It just looks bad. Also part of the appeal of cap ships is their rarity. You don't throw a titan at every single opponent you see, it's cumbersome to move around as it's slow and often too big for jumpgates, so when you decide to field a titan it needs a damn good reason.
All of these factors are what make big ships cool. If you remove these factors then you lose the cool factor of big ships, they become just another ship in the universe with nothing special about them. So with all that being considered I suppose slower speeds. If you wanna bring a titan in that's fine, you will make your enemies tremble in terror. But part of that terror isn't just because of how big or how powerful your ship is. Part of that terror is the realization that you are serious, the mere fact that you went to the trouble of bringing that behemoth means they aint gonna be getting of lightly.
So to skip my ramblings, I don't mind slower cap ships. The whole point of small ships is to be quick and agile, with big ships being slow and strong.