For wireless control: Issue commands to the group
Option 1: Attack (disabled for allies): Attack whatever ship you currently have selected.
Option 2: Escort (disabled for enemies): Attack anything that attacks that ship. Intercept missiles. Prioritize closest objects. Keep close to it.
Option 3: Patrol: Maintain constant distance from the entity, attack that gets within weapons range. Pursue if they approach the entity.
Option 4: Recall: Return to the docking module you took off from.
Remote control: I guess this would be like flying the ship, except there would be a slight artificial lag, but you wouldn't have to respawn or lose any credits if you get shot down.